So it is Friday afternoon and I don't know what to do.
So Wednesday I went out and I opened a 7 set and I had no real intentions of Picking up, but the girl that was next to me really got into me. I was just trying to be social and wanted to practice my social skills. So one thing lead to another and she gave me her Number and told me to meet her at a place that she bartends and she would hook it up.
But the problem is that I am not really interested in her, I don't see any point in getting to know her on a much deeper level. I can see myself trying her out for my social circle and maybe meeting people through her but nothing beyond that. The problem with that is that i feel like I am Just using her and I am not giving any Value to her life. Second I think we related way to much.... every subject that we talked about we had too many commonalities... WAY to many, I feel like there is nothing interesting about her.
So now i have the problem of :
A. Join her, get hooked up.
B. Go out and meet someone I am interested in.
Life is Great LOL
October 12, 2007
October 11, 2007
Calendars
Ok so i have a lot of thing going on in my life right now, and I am finding that it is difficult to keep up with everything that is going on around me, sometimes things slip my mind and I end up rushing things.
So i have decided to have 3 calenders.
1. My Events Calendar: This will have weekly events that occur, this will allow me to
set up day 2's and always have something going on.
2. My Appointments Calendar: This will have my regular schedule such as
appointments,school,gym and work.
3. My B-day Calendar: This is going to have B-days, anniversaries and other special
occasion that need to be remembered.
This will allow me to keep up with everything ( I hope).
So i have decided to have 3 calenders.
1. My Events Calendar: This will have weekly events that occur, this will allow me to
set up day 2's and always have something going on.
2. My Appointments Calendar: This will have my regular schedule such as
appointments,school,gym and work.
3. My B-day Calendar: This is going to have B-days, anniversaries and other special
occasion that need to be remembered.
This will allow me to keep up with everything ( I hope).
October 10, 2007
10/09/2007. Informative & Crazy
What a night!!!!!!!!!!!
The night was supposed to be me and my homies out for a poker game & some drinks at a local watering hole in Santa Monica. As we all know life tends to do its own thing when it wants to, thus life is unpredictable.
The plan is to meet up with Homie A and pick him up. on my way there I get a call from Quality (http://qualitypua.blogspot.com/) and we discuss some Game related topics. Its great talking to him I always get a fresh perspective on things. Its great having someone who is really good at excelling in all aspects of life and gaming. So we discuss and discuss and he made me realize that sometimes you need to take a step back and look at what has been working in order to better define you and your game. Its a simple task that I have completely over looked. I think since a lot of things have been happening this year(physically and financially) for me at such a fast pace I have had to keep my focus on whats ahead of me, and neglected to look back. So his advice was very solid and now I am going to incorporate some Lab work into my growing process. Its time to hit the Laboratory and cook up something devilishly Fun MUAHAHHA.
So I go and pick up my Homie and we head out to our local watering hole in Santa Monica and it happens to be karaoke night also. We sit down and watch some really talented people sing and some not-so talented people try to sing.
Note to Self: Learn to sing 3 songs
So I chit chat with my friend and we reminisce over our musical days, he and I were both music majors at one point. We get a call from Homie B and he says 5-0 pulled him over and he just got a ticket, now he feels like crap and doesn't want to come out.
So to cheer him up we tell him that the night is on us. So a couple of minutes later he gets there and we buy him a round of beers and it dawns on me....... The place is a Irish themed pub!!!! I sometimes wondered why the had rugby on the tv lol. But the funny part is that all the employees are Latino!
So we are there just chatting away talking about and its Homies B to buy drinks, but we insist that he keep his money. Then he tells us how when he was walking to the Pub he found some money and thats what he was going to use. We still insist that he keep it and then Homie A goes and gets us another round. When he gets back he says that the drinks were Free!!! We ask him how he got them and it turns out that some random guy at the bar paid for our drinks!!! So we enjoy our drinks and then its time for the next round... and the same thing happens again!!! So we finish up and we are all tipsy so we decide to walk over to a 24hr cafe. We get there and have some food then play rock-paper-scissors for the bill.
We decide to head back and we see a paper boy/man in his car delivering paper to residents in the area. My homies rush the car when the driver leaves and snatch a couple of papers. I run towards the driver side and try to open the door so I can "move the car" but the door was locked. We all have our lil fun and walk away then the guy comes back and pulls up next to us and tries to get the papers back. We give him 1 back and he just turn around and drives away.
Over all it was a great night I am glad I can have fun with friends like this every now and then.
The night was supposed to be me and my homies out for a poker game & some drinks at a local watering hole in Santa Monica. As we all know life tends to do its own thing when it wants to, thus life is unpredictable.
The plan is to meet up with Homie A and pick him up. on my way there I get a call from Quality (http://qualitypua.blogspot.com/) and we discuss some Game related topics. Its great talking to him I always get a fresh perspective on things. Its great having someone who is really good at excelling in all aspects of life and gaming. So we discuss and discuss and he made me realize that sometimes you need to take a step back and look at what has been working in order to better define you and your game. Its a simple task that I have completely over looked. I think since a lot of things have been happening this year(physically and financially) for me at such a fast pace I have had to keep my focus on whats ahead of me, and neglected to look back. So his advice was very solid and now I am going to incorporate some Lab work into my growing process. Its time to hit the Laboratory and cook up something devilishly Fun MUAHAHHA.
So I go and pick up my Homie and we head out to our local watering hole in Santa Monica and it happens to be karaoke night also. We sit down and watch some really talented people sing and some not-so talented people try to sing.
Note to Self: Learn to sing 3 songs
So I chit chat with my friend and we reminisce over our musical days, he and I were both music majors at one point. We get a call from Homie B and he says 5-0 pulled him over and he just got a ticket, now he feels like crap and doesn't want to come out.
So to cheer him up we tell him that the night is on us. So a couple of minutes later he gets there and we buy him a round of beers and it dawns on me....... The place is a Irish themed pub!!!! I sometimes wondered why the had rugby on the tv lol. But the funny part is that all the employees are Latino!
So we are there just chatting away talking about and its Homies B to buy drinks, but we insist that he keep his money. Then he tells us how when he was walking to the Pub he found some money and thats what he was going to use. We still insist that he keep it and then Homie A goes and gets us another round. When he gets back he says that the drinks were Free!!! We ask him how he got them and it turns out that some random guy at the bar paid for our drinks!!! So we enjoy our drinks and then its time for the next round... and the same thing happens again!!! So we finish up and we are all tipsy so we decide to walk over to a 24hr cafe. We get there and have some food then play rock-paper-scissors for the bill.
We decide to head back and we see a paper boy/man in his car delivering paper to residents in the area. My homies rush the car when the driver leaves and snatch a couple of papers. I run towards the driver side and try to open the door so I can "move the car" but the door was locked. We all have our lil fun and walk away then the guy comes back and pulls up next to us and tries to get the papers back. We give him 1 back and he just turn around and drives away.
Over all it was a great night I am glad I can have fun with friends like this every now and then.
October 7, 2007
Speer
I was lucky enough to meet and hear from Speer. We recently had at Santa Monica Lounge meeting and Revelations had a great presentation. He later told us about the free 1 hour lecture with speer. So as I always do i keep with my theme and I end up going to see what makes speer...speer.
So I get down to the designated meeting place and it has been changed to a different venue down the street. I head over there and am greeted by Revelations and then introduced to Speer.
I shake his hand and get a great vibe from him, he seemed really laid back and very confident. At this point I realize that no one has really arrived yet and everyone is grabbing a bite to eat. So I get up and grab me something to munch on. I grab a seat and watch everyone trickle in and we all start to small talk.
So everyone starts to trickle in and speer decides to have the lecture outside by some steps. We actually were next to a museum and memorial, it gave a nice back drop.
Speer starts out by giving us his bio and background. He breaks down his game and why he became good so fast. One of the key points that he talked to us about was "Identity", He broke down how he went thru a process of creating his identity before stepping into the community.
He then switched up to talking about Social Circles and how you have to people around you that are value givers and not value takers. As he was giving examples of what a value taker is and acts like a Random Bum walks up and asks if he was giving a class..... The bum then tried to go into a sad story on why he needed some money. The Bum didn't get any money but he gave us a great example of what a value taker was. He also went into good detail about how your social circle should be part of your identity and how everything ties in together.
Speer then went into some of his new theories which will be out in his book later this year ( i think its later this year), all of it was very interesting and very informative. I wont go into details about the theories since its coming out in his newsletters and book later on.
Over all it was a great lecture, Speer had it very well put together.
So in keeping with my theme (learning what makes people great)
I learned that you got to make changes within you to lead a great life. You have to make things happen because you want too.
So I get down to the designated meeting place and it has been changed to a different venue down the street. I head over there and am greeted by Revelations and then introduced to Speer.
I shake his hand and get a great vibe from him, he seemed really laid back and very confident. At this point I realize that no one has really arrived yet and everyone is grabbing a bite to eat. So I get up and grab me something to munch on. I grab a seat and watch everyone trickle in and we all start to small talk.
So everyone starts to trickle in and speer decides to have the lecture outside by some steps. We actually were next to a museum and memorial, it gave a nice back drop.
Speer starts out by giving us his bio and background. He breaks down his game and why he became good so fast. One of the key points that he talked to us about was "Identity", He broke down how he went thru a process of creating his identity before stepping into the community.
He then switched up to talking about Social Circles and how you have to people around you that are value givers and not value takers. As he was giving examples of what a value taker is and acts like a Random Bum walks up and asks if he was giving a class..... The bum then tried to go into a sad story on why he needed some money. The Bum didn't get any money but he gave us a great example of what a value taker was. He also went into good detail about how your social circle should be part of your identity and how everything ties in together.
Speer then went into some of his new theories which will be out in his book later this year ( i think its later this year), all of it was very interesting and very informative. I wont go into details about the theories since its coming out in his newsletters and book later on.
Over all it was a great lecture, Speer had it very well put together.
So in keeping with my theme (learning what makes people great)
I learned that you got to make changes within you to lead a great life. You have to make things happen because you want too.
October 5, 2007
3 weeks.
So it is almost going to be be 3 weeks of total pushing myself. I told myself that after helping out with the APB boot camp i would give myself some time to recover. Well the BC is Over and i have not stopped going out. For some reason I have been in a position where Some one is always going out and I have had the opportunity to join in.
At this point I have come to the realization thats its not really about going out, but more about choosing your venues wisely. Since its night game and most guys who do night game tend to go for "sex" as appose to the "ltr" it makes sense to go to a place where you can find more than a hand full of women to A. Practice B. Pull.
The hard part about this depends on the night of the week, Friday and Saturday seem to be by default the easiest since everyone goes out these days. Thursday seems to be good at certain venues, but as I am figuring out Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday seem to be difficult if you don't have a very high status Social circle.
So my next lesson/mission is to be able to get into clubs/lounges where "high status" people are at. That way i dont have to worry about finding targets.
So its friday and im going out.... So my review/summary of APB B-day bash will have to wait a lil longer
At this point I have come to the realization thats its not really about going out, but more about choosing your venues wisely. Since its night game and most guys who do night game tend to go for "sex" as appose to the "ltr" it makes sense to go to a place where you can find more than a hand full of women to A. Practice B. Pull.
The hard part about this depends on the night of the week, Friday and Saturday seem to be by default the easiest since everyone goes out these days. Thursday seems to be good at certain venues, but as I am figuring out Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday seem to be difficult if you don't have a very high status Social circle.
So my next lesson/mission is to be able to get into clubs/lounges where "high status" people are at. That way i dont have to worry about finding targets.
So its friday and im going out.... So my review/summary of APB B-day bash will have to wait a lil longer
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