tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-294562532024-03-19T00:44:04.206-07:00Life, Women, Passion!This is going to log my adventures into the PUA world. But mostly my understanding of myself and how I grow as a person. I am going to try to explain my process and failures.The Main Goal is to make myself a better person so I can succeed in life and with women.4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.comBlogger40125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29456253.post-14430692484535477662008-06-20T00:31:00.000-07:002008-06-20T00:33:18.444-07:00NEW BLOG!!I have started a new blog (looks way better) over here:<br /><a href="http://blog.latinogentlemen.com/"><br />http://blog.latinogentlemen.com/</a><br /><br />Take a look!<br />Check it Out!<br />Let me know what you think.<br /><br /><a href="http://blog.latinogentlemen.com/">http://blog.latinogentlemen.com/</a>4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29456253.post-53886497747285810552008-06-17T18:57:00.001-07:002008-06-17T18:57:51.044-07:00New BlogNew Blog coming soon!!4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29456253.post-15755823916117624422008-05-03T14:54:00.000-07:002008-05-03T15:05:00.428-07:00Over trainedSo I have been trying to stay active and I believe I might have over trained. This F**** sucks!!! I am still trying to heal my shoulder my left elbow feels a lot better but know my right wrist is giving me a lil trouble.<br /><br />On the bright side I have not had any fast food (except salads) for about a week. I have been spending some time working on my diet since I really cant work out.<br /><br />Random note: I almost made final table at a local casino tournament (poker) but I got a timeout for saying the f-word. The time out really hurt my play since the antes and the blinds ate me up real nice.<br /><br />The Button raised, then big blind called, I was in 1st position and had limped in with J-10 suited. I turn to the BB and said " I respect for fucking play bro" (he hadn't played a hand in 30 min) and I laid my hand down.<br /><br />The dealer yells out "timeout-floorman" the floor man comes over and gives me a time out.<br /><br />Later I hear that the same dealer gave someone a time out for saying "Tom Cruise is fucking hot"4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29456253.post-64668847660531355632008-04-21T02:53:00.000-07:002008-04-21T03:03:47.813-07:00LIfe!So I am back from Vegas!!!<br /><br />And you know what? It didn't go well! I was hoping to do good in poker and It went completely opposite. I ended up coming home broke but at least I came home Alive!<br /><br />So me and my friends are driving back from Vegas and we almost die! I have always watched TV and seen car chases but never been around one. So we are diving back and decide to stop by at xxx city to get some food. We eat and start to drive back home when we hit an intersection, everyone starts to yell at my friend (the driver) "turn left, turn right, go straight". My friend slows down and has a WTF moment at the intersection. Just then a car runs the red light and flies by us missing our car by a foot or so. Then a cop car flies by with its lights and sirens blaring. Had we not all disagreed on a direction we would have got t-boned by a car getting chased by a cop doing around 55 or so.<br /><span style="font-style: italic;"></span><br />Life is too short to worry about the small things!!!!!!!!!!4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29456253.post-88005949580559008692008-04-16T18:57:00.000-07:002008-04-16T19:08:30.615-07:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi4jFn7fgqqO4CgXOQ1bgw4xxOBA1OFjIAMcle3lBIPv-Rge8-dvYT-u0JUgh7AufrYVpvpD6aQXafdXVMzkcdXTUbyLu8dcLnNofxiWseNnSptj1WGuJCppBstxkjnJ4_7p9jN/s1600-h/las+vegas.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEi4jFn7fgqqO4CgXOQ1bgw4xxOBA1OFjIAMcle3lBIPv-Rge8-dvYT-u0JUgh7AufrYVpvpD6aQXafdXVMzkcdXTUbyLu8dcLnNofxiWseNnSptj1WGuJCppBstxkjnJ4_7p9jN/s200/las+vegas.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5190027971265489090" border="0" /></a><br />Another trip to Las Vegas!!! Lets see how my 7 card stud game holds up. Also I hope my No Limit game has not gone to crap and I can make some good money. Time to hit up the Vegas Alumni and Instructors and party it up.<br /><br />The down side is I have 1 natural friend who is going and 2 AFCs. The problem with AFCs is that they not only lack Game but they have other aspects of their life missing. But oh well what ever happens happens.4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29456253.post-2897372411826713092008-03-31T17:13:00.000-07:002008-03-31T18:02:52.166-07:00GOLFAlright, finally my poker game is starting to get better. I have been reading up on some 7 card stud strats and its starting to come together. Also I finally I bought myself some golf clubs!!!!<br /><br />I decide to spend a small amount of money and buy me a set of clubs. I couldn't way to use them so I called up a good friend of mine and told him we should hit up a driving range. We meet up and he has years of playing and he has some really good info for a beginner like me. Lucky for me I caught on really fast. So we walk into the range and its multi level, there is a total of 3 stories. We play and decide to jump on the 3rd floor and swing away. Once we got up there it felt like I was going to swing and let my club go and fall 3 stories, or I was going to swing and fall off myself.<br /><br />So after a small break we decide that we should switch levels and be a lil more comfortable. About 55 swings later I noticed that certain areas on my hands were starting to burn. I didn't realize that there was a blister developing. Now I know why people wear gloves when they swing a club.<br /><br />I just have to get about 19283231% better and I can go after Tiger Woods.4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29456253.post-34805897178681598152008-03-28T12:56:00.000-07:002008-03-28T13:09:12.695-07:00PokerWOW. this thing is hard to keep up with!!<br /><br />But the key things is that I forgot that this blog isn't just about PU its about me and what goes on around me. I forgot that this is a place where I can put my thoughts down and reflect.<br /><br />Oh well Lesson learned.<br /><br />Back to Poker!!! Yeah baby! Well not really.<br /><br />I used to play poker a while back but it seemed that it was beginning to consume my life so I decided to stop. I was a No Limit Hold'em tournament player at first and I did fairly well, I even won a couple of tournaments here is L.A and in Vegas. Then I transitioned in cash games, but Poker is a real Grind just like the pros say it is. To be honest I could have made a lil cash with Poker but I couldn't sit at a table for 8-10 hrs a day.<br /><br /><br />So fast forward to these past weeks and I am playing again, but as we all know you cant just jump back in to something and expect to be as good as you used to be. Well that turned out to be the case. I jumped back into some low limit hold'em and played for a week or so and lost a couple hundred. So I decide that maybe No Limit might not be my game anymore and I have had my eye on 7 card stud. So I decide to jump on a low limit game so I can play and understand the dynamic of the game. I definitely enjoy 7 card stud more than no limit, but unfortunately I am playing like a donk and still loosing money.<br /><br />What a mental roller coaster ride its been, its like I am back at square 1 and have to work my way up all over. I guess only time will tell if I can get back into shape with poker or not.4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29456253.post-88545039535438374672008-01-05T21:14:00.001-08:002008-01-11T11:11:58.529-08:00Dreams<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUaqozMlJsTfP0FaSM9zAw59P9dCJ6drplZwA8kq1IC25J4xgwEH7Ac2TA4fobCC1_yZYQoxav2mygUxJv5bBPagxpzwmFcgTnYoRVkJFKC1LMxrHhXDe6xRwExIYQE9W7GgCZ/s1600-h/Alicia-Keys-Biography-2.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer;" src="https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/img/b/R29vZ2xl/AVvXsEhUaqozMlJsTfP0FaSM9zAw59P9dCJ6drplZwA8kq1IC25J4xgwEH7Ac2TA4fobCC1_yZYQoxav2mygUxJv5bBPagxpzwmFcgTnYoRVkJFKC1LMxrHhXDe6xRwExIYQE9W7GgCZ/s200/Alicia-Keys-Biography-2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5152228511071339170" border="0" /></a><br />Ever Have a dream and actually remember all of it? Most of the time when I dream I cant recall most if not all of it. Freud once said that A person dreams in order to protect his/her sleep. If that was the case then why did I wake up so soon?<br /><br />Some people believe that Dreams, just a bunch neural process during sleep. Other think that they are reflections of the sub conscious. Some cultures think that Dreams are a spiritual process where god sends you a prediction for the future. he<br /><br />I am the type of person that is open to all explanations and will listen to everyones perspective.<br /><br />So the dream goes a lil like this(from what I can recall):<br /><br />I am with the ABC of Attraction team and we are somewhere in the east coast. There is a seminar and we are a part of it. I am in a room with APB and he is giving a lecture while I am to the side. There are also a bunch of students/attendees who are walking around in place. Then someones toy remote control car breaks down and needs to be soldered back together. There is no one around that knows how to solder but me, so I go into the next room which happens to lead into someones apartment. I grab the solder Iron and get to work.<br /><br />After that is done I go back and rejoin that lecture and then a guest female comes in and come up to me and we start to talk. She seems real cool and she looks amazing. The next part is a lil weird since I don't game, we just some-how are together. She is a lil nervous around people but eventually she calms down.<br /><br />After that she helps me out with my presentation and half way thru it, I am in the middle of the sidewalk walking with her. Out of nowhere there is a group of people that have now seen us and are joining us. Next I some how open a door and help an old lady walk out with her groceries. Then magically I am walking back on the side walk and we start holding hands.<br /><br /><br />Then I wake up!!!!!!!!<br />What a dream... What a lucky girl, she had the pleasure if being in my dreams. Oh yeah the girl was Alicia Keys.<br /><br />What great motivation for this new year, what a great way to start it of.4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29456253.post-89709726893130703512008-01-01T21:34:00.000-08:002008-01-02T23:13:34.091-08:00New Year ResolutionsIts a new Year!!!!!!<br /><br />So I have decide to take some time and write out some of the thing that I want to accomplish (will Accomplish) this year.<br /><br /><ol><li> I want to become a millionaire (or find a way)</li><li> I want to look like I can be on an Underwear Package</li><li> I want to start my own small business</li><li> I want to have Mltr</li><li> I want to have my fashion/style even better.</li><li> I want to write a book</li></ol><br />HMMM those don't sound correct.<br /><br /><ol><li>I am going to become a millionaire (or find a way)</li><li>I am going to look like I can be on an Underwear Package.<br /></li><li>I am going to start my own small business.<br /></li><li>I am going to have Mltr</li><li>I am going to have my fashion/style even better.</li><li>I am going to write a book</li><li>I am going to live in the now.</li><li>I am going to think only in the positive</li><li>I am going to start yoga or get back into martial arts<br /></li></ol><br /><br />Those are my goals and just to make sure I don't get off track I am going to write down what my goals will do for me.<br /><br /><br /><ul><li>These goal are something I want, not just somethings that sound good.</li><li>None of these goals contradict other goals or my beliefs.</li><li>These goals help more than 1 aspect of my life.</li><li>My goals are outrageous and are achievable.</li></ul><ul><li>These goals will give me something to aim for.<br /></li><li>These goals will help my focus my energy and time.</li><li>These goals will help motivate me and feed my desire.</li><li>These goals will serve as a road map so I can grow and improve.</li></ul>4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29456253.post-26713036111217035992007-12-19T12:39:00.000-08:002007-12-24T16:37:47.761-08:00El TopoSo I got a chance to sit in at the latest Socal Lair Event and listened to El Topo Give a lecture on routines stacks. We arrived slightly tardy because some of us decided to go racing (go karts) right before the lecture. This was a great Idea since a couple of guys wanted to battle each other on the track. The bad part about the great idea was the part we weren't aware of...We didn't know that we were 7th in line to get out on the track. Being 7th usually means you have to wait a while.<br /><br />My first impression was this guy isn't Latino..... Every one that I have talked to has told me he was. Then it hit me, I figured he was mixed, later I find that he is half and half. Next he didn't have any type of presence or aura like some of the top guys I have talked too (BradP, APB, Mystery).<br />He had a very average joe look and feel to him. Once he spoke you could tell he has had some kind of theatrical training, you can tell by the way he talked and moved around. As he began to lecture you could tell that he is a f**** great instructor.<br /><br />Most of the talk was on the basic MM attraction structure. Here is the basic outline he went over.<br /><br /><ul><li><span class="postbody">Opener (opinion/direct)</span></li><li><span class="postbody"> Neg/qualifier </span></li><li><span class="postbody"> Transition</span></li><li><span class="postbody"> Grounding/dhv </span></li><li><span class="postbody"> Frame/cold read</span></li></ul>After going over these basic concepts he went into Frames and what they are and how to get someone to accept them. At this point a lot of people got lost since he didn't give a traditional explanation on exactly what a frame is. What he described as a frame was really more of a NLP Pattern and how the Pattern was used to establish a frame.<br /><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><span class="postbody">Frames </span><br /><span class="postbody"></span></div><span class="postbody"> Force Frames<br /></span><ul><li><span class="postbody"> attraction frames</span><br /></li></ul><span class="postbody"></span><ul><li><span class="postbody"> comfort frames </span></li></ul><span class="postbody"> <br /></span>Over all his lecture was great and well prepared.The only down side was that it was a little advanced so most people got lost once the lecture got past a certain point. This definitely was not a lecture for a newbee.<br /><br /><br />On A side not he also talked about how group theory can be avoided... Asian Playboys BLP anyone??4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29456253.post-89603951075711437772007-12-07T20:41:00.002-08:002007-12-07T21:06:19.822-08:001st Lair SpeechSo I gave my first lair speech this past Wednesdays. It was a new experience for me since I am not used to speaking n front of people,but I do have knowledge on speech writing. The way I see it, it's a new skill set that I am working on. I remember a while back when I heard Brad P Speak he said In order for some one to succeeds at being a good well rounded Pick Artist/Guru they had to have 3 qualities in them and they had to be good at them.<br /><br />1. Good Pick Up Artist<br />2. Good Business Person<br />3. Good Teacher<br /><br />Good Pick Up Artist: This is true but unfortunately there are a lot of guys who confuse being good with women, with being a good Pick Up Artist. I know my game is not even close to being as good as it could be, but I am glad I am surrounded by some great Pick Up Artist and great People. Im sure as time goes by this are will develop naturally.<br /><br />Good Business Person: I have some knowledge in this are but I have not had a chance to let play out. I started reading and educating myself in some areas of Business a while back before I joined to community. Plus the ABCs Of Attraction isn't my company so I don't have to worry to much about this, I just give some input and ideas every now and then.<br /><br />Good Teacher: This is the tricky part for me, in my opinion you really cant read up on being a good teacher there are too many thing that you have to incorporate and a lot of other experiences that you to have in other areas. This is an area I just have to learn as I go along.<br /><br />So far I feel comfortable with my sluggish progression.... I know as other things start to fall into place I will pick up speed fast, like I usually do.<br /><br /><br />As far as my Speech went I asked some of the lair guys to chime in and give me some feed back.<br />Most guys had pretty much the same input;<br /><br />The Pros:<br />1. I had a solid Body language<br />2. I didn't look Nervous<br /><br />The Cons:<br />1. I could have used better notes to keep things a lil smoother and fluid.<br />2. Some guys said my voice projection was good but it died down towards the end.<br /><br /><br />Over all I enjoyed the experience and plane on doing it again. It is a great way for me to keep practicing.4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29456253.post-30087330354932339272007-12-02T14:03:00.000-08:002007-12-02T14:33:00.688-08:00This is Tough.Ok so now I am a Inter Coach for Abcs Of Attraction. I also am back in school, plus I have been traveling and still traveling. There is a lot going on and even with 3 calenders this is tough. Life in general is tough its never really easy, but finding a balance and and maintaining it is very difficult, at least for me.<br /><br />The one issue that is plaques me the most is time... I am at a point where I am trying to make myself better in every aspect of my life, from a physical, mental, and spiritual. I am also at a point where I am meeting people and have a lot of people around me.<br />So its hard to balance time for me, old friends, new friends, school, work,travel,family and women.<br />I have to be honest with myself and really start to make bigger changes in my life. I realize that I am going to be one of those peoples that are always going to be busy with something. Now there is nothing wrong with that I just have to figure out how a very busy person manages to run his life.<br />Also I don't think I can ever go back to a 9-5 job, I can not see myself ever giving up 8 hrs (5days) of my life to someone or some entity that will make money of me. I tried the Radiology field, hoping that my passion for helping people would help me thru the day and it did, but there is alot of bs and red tape in the medical field. I just cant see myself in the "Rat Race" like Robert Kiyosaki says.<br />So my whole life is getting a huge overhaul.... and it is a lot more difficult than I imagined. Its time to start to make moves and start to shake and bake. Either this is going to make happy and successful or I go down swinging.4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29456253.post-59079007263992082662007-11-09T14:40:00.000-08:002007-11-12T14:35:44.558-08:00InternshipLast week I had the Pleasure to Teach with Johnny Wolf in a 1-1 Boot Camp. I learned a lot about what it takes to take someone who is a total "afc" and what it takes to make him into a person who can successfully interact with Women. The hardest part wasn't helping the student, the hardest part was learning how to structure your interactions with the Student so he can benefit the most from you.<br />The good thing about being Part of the ABCs Of Attraction is that there is a high standard that you must meet in order to must meet in order to become part of the team.<br />The reason for this is that once you are surrounded by a bunch of guy who have good game and strive to be the best in what ever they do, it pushes and motivates you to become a better person.<br />Second this benefits the student since they are getting people who are putting in work day in and day out. When a student signs up he know that they are getting guys who have put in over hundreds of hours into something they are passionate about. Its also great being around Good PUAs that have a different perspective on game as well as different styles. The great thing about the ABCs Of Attractions is its versatility it lets you develop a unique style that is congruent to who you are.<br />So when all the instructors come together is a great ball of information that can be absorbed. This great advantage goes to the student since they get Good Solid info from different perspectives. They also get to witness how the ABCs structure can be applied to different types of game and how different people of ethnic backgrounds handle the Pick Up.<br /><br />I am happy to be part of this great team. I can learn other types of game while I myself further develop my style. We have guys that deal with ONS, LTR, and MLTR and 3-somes. I couldn't ask for a better team to sign with.4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29456253.post-72000061091169181392007-10-12T17:28:00.000-07:002007-10-12T19:40:04.678-07:00Friday Night: WHat to do?So it is Friday afternoon and I don't know what to do.<br /><br />So Wednesday I went out and I opened a 7 set and I had no real intentions of Picking up, but the girl that was next to me really got into me. I was just trying to be social and wanted to practice my social skills. So one thing lead to another and she gave me her Number and told me to meet her at a place that she bartends and she would hook it up.<br /><br />But the problem is that I am not really interested in her, I don't see any point in getting to know her on a much deeper level. I can see myself trying her out for my social circle and maybe meeting people through her but nothing beyond that. The problem with that is that i feel like I am Just using her and I am not giving any Value to her life. Second I think we related way to much.... every subject that we talked about we had too many commonalities... WAY to many, I feel like there is nothing interesting about her.<br /><br />So now i have the problem of :<br />A. Join her, get hooked up.<br />B. Go out and meet someone I am interested in.<br /><br />Life is Great LOL4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29456253.post-72346418526537469192007-10-11T14:32:00.000-07:002007-10-11T14:45:15.377-07:00CalendarsOk so i have a lot of thing going on in my life right now, and I am finding that it is difficult to keep up with everything that is going on around me, sometimes things slip my mind and I end up rushing things.<br /><br />So i have decided to have 3 calenders.<br /><br />1. My <span style="font-weight: bold;">Events</span> <span style="font-weight: bold;">Calendar</span>: This will have weekly events that occur, this will allow me to <br /> set up day 2's and always have something going on.<br />2. My <span style="font-weight: bold;">Appointments Calendar: </span>This will have my regular schedule such as<br /> appointments,school,gym and work.<br />3. My <span style="font-weight: bold;">B-day Calendar: </span>This is going to have B-days, anniversaries and other special <br /> occasion that need to be remembered.<br /><br /><br />This will allow me to keep up with everything ( I hope).4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29456253.post-40573918445390067902007-10-10T12:51:00.000-07:002007-10-10T13:36:06.167-07:0010/09/2007. Informative & CrazyWhat a night!!!!!!!!!!!<br /><br />The night was supposed to be me and my homies out for a poker game & some drinks at a local watering hole in Santa Monica. As we all know life tends to do its own thing when it wants to, thus life is unpredictable.<br /><br />The plan is to meet up with Homie A and pick him up. on my way there I get a call from Quality (http://qualitypua.blogspot.com/) and we discuss some Game related topics. Its great talking to him I always get a fresh perspective on things. Its great having someone who is really good at excelling in all aspects of life and gaming. So we discuss and discuss and he made me realize that sometimes you need to take a step back and look at what has been working in order to better define you and your game. Its a simple task that I have completely over looked. I think since a lot of things have been happening this year(physically and financially) for me at such a fast pace I have had to keep my focus on whats ahead of me, and neglected to look back. So his advice was very solid and now I am going to incorporate some Lab work into my growing process. Its time to hit the Laboratory and cook up something devilishly Fun MUAHAHHA.<br /><br /><br /><br />So I go and pick up my Homie and we head out to our local watering hole in Santa Monica and it happens to be karaoke night also. We sit down and watch some really talented people sing and some not-so talented people try to sing.<br /><br />Note to Self: Learn to sing 3 songs<br /><br />So I chit chat with my friend and we reminisce over our musical days, he and I were both music majors at one point. We get a call from Homie B and he says 5-0 pulled him over and he just got a ticket, now he feels like crap and doesn't want to come out.<br />So to cheer him up we tell him that the night is on us. So a couple of minutes later he gets there and we buy him a round of beers and it dawns on me....... The place is a Irish themed pub!!!! I sometimes wondered why the had rugby on the tv lol. But the funny part is that all the employees are Latino!<br /><br />So we are there just chatting away talking about and its Homies B to buy drinks, but we insist that he keep his money. Then he tells us how when he was walking to the Pub he found some money and thats what he was going to use. We still insist that he keep it and then Homie A goes and gets us another round. When he gets back he says that the drinks were Free!!! We ask him how he got them and it turns out that some random guy at the bar paid for our drinks!!! So we enjoy our drinks and then its time for the next round... and the same thing happens again!!! So we finish up and we are all tipsy so we decide to walk over to a 24hr cafe. We get there and have some food then play rock-paper-scissors for the bill.<br /><br />We decide to head back and we see a paper boy/man in his car delivering paper to residents in the area. My homies rush the car when the driver leaves and snatch a couple of papers. I run towards the driver side and try to open the door so I can "move the car" but the door was locked. We all have our lil fun and walk away then the guy comes back and pulls up next to us and tries to get the papers back. We give him 1 back and he just turn around and drives away.<br /><br />Over all it was a great night I am glad I can have fun with friends like this every now and then.4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29456253.post-3639887072683658062007-10-07T21:19:00.001-07:002007-10-08T17:13:45.789-07:00SpeerI was lucky enough to meet and hear from Speer. We recently had at Santa Monica Lounge meeting and Revelations had a great presentation. He later told us about the free 1 hour lecture with speer. So as I always do i keep with my theme and I end up going to see what makes speer...speer.<br /><br />So I get down to the designated meeting place and it has been changed to a different venue down the street. I head over there and am greeted by Revelations and then introduced to Speer.<br /><br />I shake his hand and get a great vibe from him, he seemed really laid back and very confident. At this point I realize that no one has really arrived yet and everyone is grabbing a bite to eat. So I get up and grab me something to munch on. I grab a seat and watch everyone trickle in and we all start to small talk.<br /><br />So everyone starts to trickle in and speer decides to have the lecture outside by some steps. We actually were next to a museum and memorial, it gave a nice back drop.<br /><br />Speer starts out by giving us his bio and background. He breaks down his game and why he became good so fast. One of the key points that he talked to us about was "Identity", He broke down how he went thru a process of creating his identity before stepping into the community.<br /><br />He then switched up to talking about Social Circles and how you have to people around you that are value givers and not value takers. As he was giving examples of what a value taker is and acts like a Random Bum walks up and asks if he was giving a class..... The bum then tried to go into a sad story on why he needed some money. The Bum didn't get any money but he gave us a great example of what a value taker was. He also went into good detail about how your social circle should be part of your identity and how everything ties in together.<br /><br />Speer then went into some of his new theories which will be out in his book later this year ( i think its later this year), all of it was very interesting and very informative. I wont go into details about the theories since its coming out in his newsletters and book later on.<br /><br />Over all it was a great lecture, Speer had it very well put together.<br /><br /><br />So in keeping with my theme (learning what makes people great)<br /><br />I learned that you got to make changes within you to lead a great life. You have to make things happen because you want too.4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29456253.post-26388535048832466172007-10-05T14:09:00.000-07:002007-10-07T16:02:50.936-07:003 weeks.So it is almost going to be be 3 weeks of total pushing myself. I told myself that after helping out with the APB boot camp i would give myself some time to recover. Well the BC is Over and i have not stopped going out. For some reason I have been in a position where Some one is always going out and I have had the opportunity to join in.<br /><br /><br />At this point I have come to the realization thats its not really about going out, but more about choosing your venues wisely. Since its night game and most guys who do night game tend to go for "sex" as appose to the "ltr" it makes sense to go to a place where you can find more than a hand full of women to A. Practice B. Pull.<br /><br />The hard part about this depends on the night of the week, Friday and Saturday seem to be by default the easiest since everyone goes out these days. Thursday seems to be good at certain venues, but as I am figuring out Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday seem to be difficult if you don't have a very high status Social circle.<br /><br />So my next lesson/mission is to be able to get into clubs/lounges where "high status" people are at. That way i dont have to worry about finding targets.<br /><br />So its friday and im going out.... So my review/summary of APB B-day bash will have to wait a lil longer4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29456253.post-52026512170457672502007-09-27T10:00:00.000-07:002007-09-27T10:31:19.163-07:00A-hole Game and a F-UpSo I meet up with Bigsend and we head out, the initial plan is to go to skybar. That doesn't pan out so we decide to hit another spot, Once we get there it pretty much dead. So then we decide to go look for a club thats near by, but once we get there its closed. Then Bigsend gets a Text fron Ulysses a good of ours and tells us that its going to be happening at X but we have to say were are on the guest list.<br /><br />So head over to X and they ask us if we were on the List.... BigSend took over and worked his charm(AKA BS LOL) and he got us is. Then we walk over to the bar and get some sodas. The Female bartender looks at us and compliments on how sharp we look(we both had suits on) and then proceeds to give us free drinks.<br /><br />So we sit around all over dresses and wait for Pink Floyd to meet us. Once he gets there we wait around a lil more so the venue get bumping. So we all open a couple of sets and then I run across this 2 set:<br /><br />I open hb blond direct then try to go into rapport in a high energy way so I don't lose her. Her freind HB 8 turns to her and wipers something. I am not getting any IOIs from HB Blond and HB 8 isn't paying me any attention. I try to stack but I am getting no where, so I decide to eject.<br /><br />I go back to my Boys and then HB 8 walks by and says " why did you leave?".<br />I Told her because she want paying any attention, and im here to meet people.<br />She then proceeds to try to toy with me, As soon as she does this i new she is the kind of HB that wants attention, then when she gets it she leaves, or loses interested in a guy.<br /><br />So she stays next to me and I ask her "whats your story" she then gives me a semi answer with a ADD attitude. Since I knew her game was "Cat String" I just stopped talking to her and left.<br />I don't like girls who act stuck up and want attention, and to get it they toy with guys...then they just leave.<br /><br />So I go back to my Boys and Big Send is in a 2 set with a hot tattoo girl. I jump in and wing, I didnt get my targets name so i just rolled played. I thought I heard BigSend say Cinderella So I just used that and rolled with it. I told her I was Robin Hood and she enjoyed that answer. I jumped into rapport and tried to hold the convo as long as I could so BigSend could have some time with his HB.<br /><br />So after that set I walk around and guess who I run into my HB8.<br /><br />HB: Why did you leave?<br />Me: You weren't listening.<br />HB: You like the way I look? *point to her*<br />Me: HMMMM... well your very creative...ill give you that.<br />HB: OMG... are you saying Im Ugly!<br />Me: I never said that.. I like the way you put it all together.<br />HB: OMG.... Your saying im ugly.<br />Me: Wait!!! when did I say that?<br />Me: I like the way your top hang over your shoulder *kino shoulder*<br />Me: And I like the way you have your hair. *kino neck and hair*<br />Me: But!!!!! I AM NOT HERE TO KISS YOUR ASS!! I might bite it but not Kiss it.<br />Me: I am here to meet genuine people and have fun.<br />HB: Im genuine...<br />Me: SO you have only ONE good quality. *laugh*<br /><br />After this she qualifies her self to me, then she does a take away and turns to her friend. I do exactly the same thing. I turn to Pink Floyd and tell him "im doing a take a way also".<br />Right after that she Grabs my Hand and turns me around and says " Ill be right back im going to the bathroom"<br /><br />We all wait around for a lil but it turns out to take to long. Bigsend then says " Damn what is she doing taking a shit". We all laugh and go open more sets.<br /><br />Later I see her and she is throwing out AIs like crazy. But I figured I have basically been a a-hole to her might as well keep it up. THAT was my big mistake I was in!!! i need to run some solid game, but I just kept the a-hole thing up and lost her.<br /><br />Last time I blew it because I want back into comfort this time I blew it because I missed comfort.<br /><br />She Prime and ready for a good night and I missed out.... Oh well ill just take this as a valuable lesson.<br /><br /><br />Now Vegas here I come again!!!4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29456253.post-6280187707193080842007-09-25T18:11:00.000-07:002007-09-25T19:46:54.364-07:00Vince KelvinSo I had the opportunity to go to the <span style="font-style: italic;">The Advanced Attraction and Arousal Mastery Weekend!<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;"></span><br /></span>It was a 2 day course that covered Fast Game, this framework is very interesting since to me I thought Fast Game was done in a similar fashion as regular game, just faster. But I don't know anything and thus I learned how Fast Game works.<br /><br /><br />It was a great seminar but my motives behind it wasn't to go and learn new techniques but to go and watch Vince himself and what makes him what he is. The same goes for APB, I wanted to watch these guy and not simply learn their methods but learn what it really takes for someone to be at that level. Both these guys are amazing in field, and they are amazing people, So my goal was to watch amazing people do amazing things, so I can Be Amazing someday.<br /><br />So here are some things that I noticed about Vince that really impressed me and i hope to incorporate into who I am.<br /><br />He has alot of experience in field.<br />It about the energy that you bring.<br />You have to be Playful and express that thru BL<br />You have to be relaxed and express that thru BL<br />Even If you are at mastery Level you still push yourself.<br /><br />I also noticed that every guru that I have seen (Bradp, APB, Vince) has a different swagger. They all have great BL but they are not the same. This brings up an interesting question, How do you find your swagger??<br />I guess its just time in field and you pushing yourself, after l that I assume that it all just comes together naturally.<br /><br />I had the pleasure for being Vince's wings for about 20 min (During intermission) and what I saw in the day time Blew me away! The top gurus make it seem so easy... I mean SOOOOO EASY... They make it look like the girl was waiting for them and then she just gives herself to him.<br /><br />Vince rolls up and opens and the set blows wide open.<br />I wing him and try to watch,listen and learn what he is doing to the HB9, while entertaining the obstacle. The way his game flowed from there was amazing, everything he did the hb was drooling over him. Around the 5 minute mark he is telling her that her punnanee(sp) is his. Then about the 10 min mark he is rubbing a lil oil that he carries on her chest in between her tits.<br />no more than 5 min later he is k-closing. After that i couldn't pay to much attention since 2 other friends of her came in and I had to try to occupy 3 people. I am pretty sure thought that he could have bounced her into his hotel room in less than 20 min.<br /><br />I enjoyed hanging around him and learning, next is APB and Vegas once again.. So on to learn some more and the next adventure.4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29456253.post-60323047020671417502007-09-21T16:07:00.000-07:002007-09-25T19:47:21.417-07:00Finally back.So i made it back in one piece from Mexico, Boy did I miss L.A<br /><br />I went out there for family reasons and didn't have many opportunities do practice anything, plus it was raining most of the time. So i make it back and get a well timed called from BigSend...<br /><br />We decide to head out and get a few sets in. I wasn't ready for this I just got back im jet lagged and very tired. I got some good opportunities coming up and my mind is all stressed. Combine all these factors and you get someone who wont approach. So I didn't approach at all, it wasn't anxiety, I just wast feeling it. So we walk around and i do basically nothing.<br /><br />We decide to take a break and get together later for some night game.<br /><br />I go back home and meditate in front of the tv to some Comic View. I then try to get a lil nap but nothing works. So i write out everything and reframe it into all positives.<br /><br />So we meet up and hit the hollywood area and the place is dead!!! this did nothing for my state. So we get a couple of drinks and decide to chill and relax for the next hour. Then the place starts to get crowded and we start opening.<br /><br />THE FIRST HB i open blows open and i extract out side in 60 sec... then proceed to make out and get her to rub my cock, after that i get her to show me her tits..<br /><br />All the Variables for a pull were there and I BLEW IT!!!!!!<br /><br />I could have pulled in less than 5 min!!!<br /><br />The mistake that I made was going back to make her Comfortable!! I tried to connect more when i was ready to make a physical connection.<br /><br />Ill write up a FR to remind myself of what not to do, and how all can change in a moment. It went from me feeling shitty to almost pulling under 5 min.<br /><br />Life is great LOL4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29456253.post-73255977216297153032007-09-08T21:17:00.000-07:002007-09-08T21:20:06.620-07:003rd Vacation in 3 monthsFor the last 3 months all I have been doing is traveling....<br />Now I am off to Mexico, My spanish is Okay so hopefully I can translate some of my material.4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29456253.post-14354025518647798302007-09-03T23:35:00.000-07:002007-09-03T23:51:13.230-07:00ViVa Las VegasSo i spent 5.5 days in Vegas and boy was it a blast. Vegas IMO is the best training grounds for a young PUA. There are so many HB and they are all out there to have fun and enjoy the moment. That means that you options are greater and your % goes up, if your willing to push yourself.<br /><br />My goal was to go to Vegas and play Poker all Day and Party all night.<br /><br />Day 1:<br />got to Vegas mid day, Played poker all day and then got ready for the evening.<br />Hit the club and at the end of the night I managed to bounce 2x and got some nasty lmr in the Elevator to her room.<br /><br />Day2:<br />Played Poker all day and then got ready for the evening.<br />Got 3 kiss closses but could get anything more.<br /><br />Day3:<br /><br />Played a lil poker and meet some friends then got ready for the evening.<br />I was a 1 man wrecking crew this night.<br />I F-up logistics and fumbled the pull, so I go for the restroom pull but the bouncer had no love for 4FiveSex.<br /><br />Day 4:<br /><br />I slept all day, My body could not take all the stress.<br />I had a bad night... My sets didn't hook and I ran into some "racist comments". It just was one of those bad nights.<br /><br />Day 5:<br /><br />I play poker all day, then catch my flight later that night.<br /><br /><br /><br /><br />Vegas is always fun!!!4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29456253.post-20251939806452246142007-08-17T12:46:00.000-07:002007-08-20T19:18:48.026-07:00Too much walkingWhat a great Wednesdays night i had...<br /><br />First i meet up with APB and help out with A Focus Group he was Running, boy does he have some good stuff coming soon. After that we(Me,Gatsby,APB) decided to head out and go sarge a lil.<br /><br />We decide that we should head on up to Hollywood.. we jump in my car and head up there. For a Wednesday night it was really crowded and parking was difficult since I didnt want to pay the HUGE prices at the local lots.<br /><br />So we finally find a spot and walk over to club X once we get there we find out that its closed. We ask around and find out that there is another club right down the street. As we are walking to the place we spot a group of papparatzie waiting outside a restaurant. We just assume that there was a celeb in there having a late dinner.<br /><br />We get the next club .... while we are there we see at least 4 celebs running across the rope and getting chased by Papparatzie. After that we went and hit a local bar and got some drinks.<br /><br />It was great watching APB and Gatsby perform, APB has got the sickest non-verbal game I have seen... Gatsby is one smooth guy...And me??? Well im not there yet but being in there presences was great. I got to see first hand how the game can be played at the most optimal level. APB is a great guy who I am glad I came across in my PUA journey.<br /><br />Later as the sun rose we went back to my car but we couldnt find it. We walk around for a while and stilll couldnt find it. We cought a cab back to APB Hotel and then Later I went back for it.<br /><br />Over all it was a great night.4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-29456253.post-72719877837935139942007-08-16T18:41:00.000-07:002007-08-16T19:24:32.779-07:00My Rules For DayGameSo there are times when I get a good big dose of DayGame, and there are other times when i get DayGame in small doses. The big doses are when other lair guys call me up and we set a day to sarge. The small doses are the times one is doing an everyday errand and gets the opportunity to sarge a hb.<br /><br />After doing a good amount of big dose DayGame I have Learned a couple of things. Now these lessons are going to help me enjoy and make the most out of Big Dose DayGame.<br /><br />My Rules:<br /><br />1. Comfortable Shoes.<br /><br />I have consistently made the mistake of wearing shoes that made my feet tired and hurt at the end of the day. Nice Cofortable shoes make walking around (and sometimes chasing) alot better.<br /><br />2. Weather appropriate Clothing.<br />Once again I have worn clothing that made me over heat. Had I worn something lighter and cooler i wouldn't have been drenched in sweat while gaming.<br /><br />3. Don't walk to much.<br /><br />Every time we go out and do Big Dose DayGame we end up walking around for hours... Its so much nicer if you can find a nice spot to sit and let the HBs come to you.<br /><br />4. Get Good Wings.<br /><br />Its so much easier when you go out and have other guys motivating and keeping up with you. Its so much harder when you go out and they guy(s) don't do anything... It brings your state down too much.<br /><br /><br />5. Water/Bathroom Breaks.<br /><br />Its necessary to keep our self hydrated so you don't pass out in the heat. Its just as important that you get a Bathroom break also.. you don't want to be jumping around a HB or miss one because you had to run to the Bathroom.<br /><br />6. Watch the Meter.<br /><br />Make sure you dont get a ticket. make sure the meter has money in it. Also make sure that you dont exceed the aloted time.<br /><br />7. Alawys push they self.4-5-6http://www.blogger.com/profile/16782263767545141286noreply@blogger.com0