Speer

I was lucky enough to meet and hear from Speer. We recently had at Santa Monica Lounge meeting and Revelations had a great presentation. He later told us about the free 1 hour lecture with speer. So as I always do i keep with my theme and I end up going to see what makes speer...speer.

So I get down to the designated meeting place and it has been changed to a different venue down the street. I head over there and am greeted by Revelations and then introduced to Speer.

I shake his hand and get a great vibe from him, he seemed really laid back and very confident. At this point I realize that no one has really arrived yet and everyone is grabbing a bite to eat. So I get up and grab me something to munch on. I grab a seat and watch everyone trickle in and we all start to small talk.

So everyone starts to trickle in and speer decides to have the lecture outside by some steps. We actually were next to a museum and memorial, it gave a nice back drop.

Speer starts out by giving us his bio and background. He breaks down his game and why he became good so fast. One of the key points that he talked to us about was "Identity", He broke down how he went thru a process of creating his identity before stepping into the community.

He then switched up to talking about Social Circles and how you have to people around you that are value givers and not value takers. As he was giving examples of what a value taker is and acts like a Random Bum walks up and asks if he was giving a class..... The bum then tried to go into a sad story on why he needed some money. The Bum didn't get any money but he gave us a great example of what a value taker was. He also went into good detail about how your social circle should be part of your identity and how everything ties in together.

Speer then went into some of his new theories which will be out in his book later this year ( i think its later this year), all of it was very interesting and very informative. I wont go into details about the theories since its coming out in his newsletters and book later on.

Over all it was a great lecture, Speer had it very well put together.


So in keeping with my theme (learning what makes people great)

I learned that you got to make changes within you to lead a great life. You have to make things happen because you want too.

3 weeks.

So it is almost going to be be 3 weeks of total pushing myself. I told myself that after helping out with the APB boot camp i would give myself some time to recover. Well the BC is Over and i have not stopped going out. For some reason I have been in a position where Some one is always going out and I have had the opportunity to join in.


At this point I have come to the realization thats its not really about going out, but more about choosing your venues wisely. Since its night game and most guys who do night game tend to go for "sex" as appose to the "ltr" it makes sense to go to a place where you can find more than a hand full of women to A. Practice B. Pull.

The hard part about this depends on the night of the week, Friday and Saturday seem to be by default the easiest since everyone goes out these days. Thursday seems to be good at certain venues, but as I am figuring out Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday seem to be difficult if you don't have a very high status Social circle.

So my next lesson/mission is to be able to get into clubs/lounges where "high status" people are at. That way i dont have to worry about finding targets.

So its friday and im going out.... So my review/summary of APB B-day bash will have to wait a lil longer

Finally back.

So i made it back in one piece from Mexico, Boy did I miss L.A

I went out there for family reasons and didn't have many opportunities do practice anything, plus it was raining most of the time. So i make it back and get a well timed called from BigSend...

We decide to head out and get a few sets in. I wasn't ready for this I just got back im jet lagged and very tired. I got some good opportunities coming up and my mind is all stressed. Combine all these factors and you get someone who wont approach. So I didn't approach at all, it wasn't anxiety, I just wast feeling it. So we walk around and i do basically nothing.

We decide to take a break and get together later for some night game.

I go back home and meditate in front of the tv to some Comic View. I then try to get a lil nap but nothing works. So i write out everything and reframe it into all positives.

So we meet up and hit the hollywood area and the place is dead!!! this did nothing for my state. So we get a couple of drinks and decide to chill and relax for the next hour. Then the place starts to get crowded and we start opening.

THE FIRST HB i open blows open and i extract out side in 60 sec... then proceed to make out and get her to rub my cock, after that i get her to show me her tits..

All the Variables for a pull were there and I BLEW IT!!!!!!

I could have pulled in less than 5 min!!!

The mistake that I made was going back to make her Comfortable!! I tried to connect more when i was ready to make a physical connection.

Ill write up a FR to remind myself of what not to do, and how all can change in a moment. It went from me feeling shitty to almost pulling under 5 min.

Life is great LOL